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February 2007 Issue

UPON MY WORD! 
 
The Regency E-Zine 
published monthly  
by Linore Rose Burkard 
 
 
This month: 
Special feature for Men: 
How the fashionable man spent his time during the Regency 
(And women did not) 
Visions of Byron 
Some of his poems, that is. View the videos on YouTube. 
A top Regency poet is interpreted visually with stunning 
results. 
Ariana Objects: 
In which the author is questioned on why her next book is 
not 
out yet, by the heroine waiting to finish her story!  
News, Notes and Thanks 
F.R.E.E. Download of the Month:  
All new subscribers get this: Paste Jewels, by John 
Kendrick Bangs, 
a late 19th century author. Available here for all 
subscribers. (with 
a few illustrations that I added to make it more fun.) And 
more. 
February Regency Births of Note 
 
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Special Feature: 
The Regency Man of Leisure 
Bucks, Beaux, and Blades: 
What They Did and why Women Did Not. 
 
It has been said that during the Regency a man's time 
was really his own, while a woman was expected to  
engage in only a few genteel pastimes. For instance, 
while a woman might paint, draw, do needlework, make 
morning calls, and shop, a man was free to box, fence, 
hunt, drive, shoot, attend a club, drink, dine out freely 
with  
other men, game (gamble) and even womanize. None  
of these pursuits would jeopardize his standing or  
reputation with society at large though he might be 
hard-pressed to keep his wife happy. 
 
In addition, he might be a Lord, and therefore a member 
of Parliament, or sit in the House of Commons. After that, 
there were multiple posts in the army or navy, and civic  
leadership from the lowly local constable to the Lord Mayor 
of London. There was also the church, which was a  
respectable fall-back for second sons who did not want an  
army commission, Finally, let us not forget that for many 
men  
with means, their entire occupation was merely being a 
man about town--a beau, a dandy (not necessarily a fop, 
even the Prince Regent had years of dandified glory, until 
he grew too large to cut a fine figure).  
 
Additionally, only men were expected to be truly educated, 
though there is vast evidence that women were often 
scholars 
of equal footing, taught at home by parents, tutors, or 
themselves. 
(As witness the many female poets and authors of the day, 
not to mention political and social hostesses,  
whose conversation had to be witty and knowledgeable in 
order to attract the social elites (men) who  
filled their tables.)  
 
A woman, however, always had to be careful.  
She had only to be seen walking on the wrong street at 
the wrong time of day, and she could be  
taken for a "light-skirt", a lady of the street, and her  
reputation was lost. The double-standard that has  
often existed between what is allowable for 
men and women was fully in force at that time.  
Of course, there were exceptions: some aristocratic 
ladies had their cake, and ate it too, such as Lady Harley  
whose numerous brood of offspring had many sires, and  
were therefore called "the Harleian Miscellany." This  
did not prevent her from appearing at Court, while for 
the common miss, the least hint of impropriety in  
sexual matters would ruin her chances of a good marriage.  
 
Finally, the inheritance laws nearly universally (and 
historically) favored only male heirs, which authors like 
Jane Austen highlighted to depict the sometime plight of 
women.  
 
If a Regency belle were to flash-forward to today's society 
she might feel herself lost for a time, unprotected, and 
overwhelmed. Eventually, however, I think she'd agree that 
she'd come a long way, baby. 
 
copyright 2007 Linore Rose Burkard. All rights reserved. 
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Visions of Byron (on You Tube) 
 
(Illustration only available in HTML version). 
email linroseburkard@earthlink.net and ask for the February 
newsletter in HTML  
 
 
Two poems by the bard are given the modern treatment 
with impressive results. (Thanks to the Byron List for the 
"heads up.") Poems are, "Darkness" (earlier titled, The 
Dream) 
and "When We Two Parted." To see and hear the short  
presentations go here:  
 
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=36EJAeJ2vG4  
("When We Two Parted") (Love the narration on this one!) 
 
 
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JVGki2RnQVQ 
("Darkness") Quite apocalyptic.Apparently, Byron had  
a nightmare. Some of the images here are more appropriate 
than others, I thought, but overall quite good.  
 
(Above Illustration: George Gordon, Lord Byron. He was both 
adored  
and vilified during the Regency.) 
 
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"Ariana Objects": (In which I mimic 19th century 
style in a "conversation" with Miss Forsythe.) 
 
(Ariana Forsythe is the heroine in my novel, Before the 
Season Ends. 
If you've been waiting for the sequel, you're not alone. If 
you've been  
wondering what's up with Ariana, read on!)  
 
 
“Well, it's about time!” Ariana said to me, as if she'd 
been waiting around for months.  
 
I had been trying to get back to sleep, and realized then 
that it was hopeless. 
 
“I'm sorry,” I responded, earnestly and in my most cordial 
voice. 
 
“I never meant to have you languish for so long, or to keep 
you waiting like this.” 
 
“But you have,” she answered, matter-of-factly. 
 
“Yes, I'm a sorry excuse for a writer, I realize that.” 
 
“I'm quite impatient to get on with my life,” she pointed 
out. 
 
“But I have a life, too, you know, and I've had a very 
trying time of it.” 
 
“Oh, have you?” she asked, a little compassion springing 
into her large tan eyes. 
 
“I have,” I nodded. 
 
“But I'm not the only one waiting,” she said, trying to 
sound gentle, though I could tell she was really quite put 
out with me.  
 
“Yes, I'm aware of that,” I told her. “I have been doing 
some writing, you know!”  
 
“But not about me,” she said, rather firmly. “You realize 
that I'm completely dependent upon you to live my life, 
don't you?”  
 
“Mmmm,” I answered. I saw her point. 
 
“Very well, then, where would you like to begin?” 
 
“Why, with Phillip, of course!” she answered quickly, and 
immediately I saw the old sparkle jump into her large eyes, 
bringing a good deal of changing colours with it.  
 
“Where is Phillip?” I asked, hoping she could tell me. 
 
“With the horses,” she said, without a moment's hesitation. 
 
“Ah,” I said. “That's a start, I suppose.”  
 
She smiled. “Of course it is. Now get to work, and let me 
get to mine.”  
 
“Oh, and what is your work?” I asked, not realizing that 
she had got any. 
 
“Why, to do good, and to perhaps exert some small influence 
on our circle of friends; Phillip is often at Carlton 
House, you know, and perchance I may even be given the 
opportunity of demonstrating goodness to the Prince!” She 
looked at me sideways. “If –If a certain person would 
simply hunker down and let me at it.”  
 
I had an uncomfortable feeling I knew who that person was.  
 
“And what about my life?” I asked her, a little 
defiantly.”You know, that matters, too!”  
 
“But this is your life,” she responded with the cool 
assurance I had always enjoyed in her.  
 
“You're sure about that, eh?” I asked.  
 
“Oh, completely!” she answered, with a full smile this 
time. “I just know it! You mustn't shirk your life's work, 
you know.”  
 
“But my family, my home, aren't they my life's work, too?” 
 
“Of course they are. And that is what makes my life work 
for you; I mean, it's a labour and a duty; you must find a 
way to enable us both to do what we are meant for.”  
 
“And what are you meant for?” There was a silence hanging 
in the air for a moment while Ariana just stared at me with 
her large, pretty eyes shining thoughtfully. “Nearly the 
same as what you are meant for; To do the work God gives 
us, discovering who we are and how we may better the world 
in some small way; to love those around us and help them 
know God. Wouldn't you say all of that is part of our 
reason for being here?” 
 
I nodded. “Hmmn, yes, I believe I would.”  
 
“And above all,” she added, after having another moment to 
think about it. “I should think we must learn to love the 
Lord in all circumstances- no matter what befalls us.”  
 
“Well said,” I answered, admiring her quick thinking, not 
for the first time.  
 
She looked at me with a mixture of amusement and patience. 
“Shall we get on with it, then?” 
 
“I'm not certain I'm prepared....” I began. 
 
“No one ever is,” she said, gently. “Do not allow that to 
stop you.” 
 
I took a deep breath. “Oh, very well. I suppose we must 
begin. It has been a long time, hasn't it?” 
 
She nodded. “Too long.” 
 
I stared at her a moment, taking in the shining eyes, silky 
golden hair, and smooth complexion—all of which had helped 
her win the heart of her beloved, as well as that of most 
all London.  
 
“Things may get difficult for you this time around,” I 
suddenly had to tell her. “We can't all just go on 
smoothly, you know, without dire things befalling us.” Her 
eyes darkened a little. “I realize that,” she answered, 
slowly. “I needs must move on, however, come what may.”  
 
“Of course. And so you shall.”  
 
“You will see that Phillip gets on well, though, won't 
you?” she asked suddenly, betraying a hint of the young 
girl she really still was, beauty aside.  
 
“Oh, now, my dear,” I said, shaking my head, “I care for 
Phillip a great deal, you must know that.”  
 
“But that doesn't answer the purpose,” she said, mildly 
alarmed. “You will take care of him, won't you? 
 
“Phillip is a strong man and has a good head on his 
shoulders “ I answered. “I'm afraid you'll have to trust 
him, and God, to take care of things.” But she didn't look 
reassured. “Besides,” I added, having another thought, 
“you'll need to watch over your own heart and soul, as 
ever.”  
 
She nodded thoughtfully. “Yes, I shall.”  
 
“Good,” I said. “So perhaps now we shall begin.”  
 
“Good,” she said, though her voice was still a little 
subdued by the thoughts of what life might bring her way. I 
gave her a quick hug. “It is good to see you!” I said, in a 
whisper, in her ear.  
 
“Thank you, indeed,” she answered. “And you. I had almost 
given up on you.” We moved apart and looked affectionately 
at one another for a moment.  
 
“I may be slow, but I do get around to things,” I said. 
 
She smiled, and with a bubble of laughter in her voice, 
said again, “It's about time!”  
 
 
finis 
 
Linore's Note: I have, of course, already been at work on 
the sequel, but I have been distracted from it, too.  
Here's hoping Ariana got through to me~! <grin>  
 
copyright 2007 Linore Rose Burkard 
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News, Notes, and Thanks  
 
Before the Season Ends has just won an "Outstanding Read" 
seal of approval from Faithwriters.com.  
 
 
Thank you, FaithWriter's! 
 
For more info about the Regency Adventure/Romance Before 
the Season Ends  
(with a twist of inspiration) go here: 
http://www.LinoreRoseBurkard.com/Home_BeforeTSE.html 
The book is also available at Amazon.com, and 
BarnesandNoble.com 
 
The William Blake archive has announced a new release: 
http://www.blakearchive.org/ 
Everything on the archive is F.r.e.e. This is a great 
resource if you like 
Blake's writings or artwork. (Blake is a REGENCY talent. He 
lived from 1757-1827, 
and was a prolific poet, painter and printmaker.) 
 
Simply Slimming Update: 
Last month I announced I'd be using this weight-loss module 
by Janice Elizabeth Small. 
So far, I dropped four pounds. Not a great deal, but I'm 
still having dessert, so it's a  
great encouragement! If you want to change the way you 
think about food, (read: not DIET) 
and lose weight, check out Simply Slimming. (Only 21 more 
pounds to go! If I lose only two  
or three a month, I'd still be ahead of my goal by next 
December.) 
Janice's daily encouragements are terrific. Not the usual 
stuff, either. She really helps you to  
think consciously about what you put into your body, and 
why. And just FYI: I'm not an affiliate or 
anything, so I don't make a penny if you choose her method. 
 
Go here: ("The friendliest place to lose weight on the 
web") 
http://www.simplyslimming.com/dietexitplan 
 
 
 
 
Valentine's Day is over, but since it's still February I 
thought I'd include this little graphic (above) 
and take a moment to wish all of you a belated Happy 
Valentine's Day! 
 
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F.r.e.e Download 
 
Paste Jewels by John Kendrick Bangs. A humorous look at 
life with servants.  
Ever think that back in the days when it was common to have 
"help" that life must have been 
easier?  
Maybe. 
Maybe not!  
 
Download the story here: 
http://www.LinoreRoseBurkard.com/pjs.html 
 
Last month's story/poem "Little Roland" is still available. 
This is really cute! 
Download it here: 
http://www.LinoreRoseBurkard.com/roland.html 
 
Read an excerpt of Before the Season Ends, here: 
http://www.LinoreRoseBurkard.com/btse_excerpt.html 
 
Don't forget that there's a Regency glossary available! 
http://www.LinoreRoseBurkard.com/Glossary.html 
 
 
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February Regency Births of Note: 
February 7 Charles Dickens (1812) Novelist 
10th Charles Lamb (1775) Essayist; minor poet; author* 
22nd Sarah Fuller Adams (1805) Actress, poet, hymnwriter* 
22nd William Barnes (1801) Writer; spoke 8 languages!* 
22nd James Russell Lowell (1819) Poet, essayist 
27th Henry Wadsworth Longfellow (1807) Writer; humanist* 
 
*I include birthdays during the "stylistic" Regency, not 
just the political Regency 
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See you next month! 
 
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